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Sylvan Fern's avatar

So true, clean up your own mess before taking on another. I do have hope for our species based on being a parent (along with my wife) who nurtured three children into adulthood that now have children of their own. Children do really stupid things along the way, especially the teen years, when they think they deserve adult freedoms without showing the follow throughs or responsibilities necessary for generative growth. What to do with maddening situations like this of profound immaturity? Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water as tempting as it might be!

I found through the many frustrations and occasional successes of parenting that maturity was a two way street. I became less self centered through a the seemingly unending practice of helping my children look outside themselves to be less self-centered.

Ken Wilber, philosopher/ sociologist, developed a model for viewing human maturity cross-culturally and as a species. We transcend through individuation, but the problem is presented by either including or excluding what we move out from. As Europeans colonized the Americas with advanced technologies and weapons, destroying other cultures in their path, so to did they lose the cultural wisdom of community, myth and connection to the earth.

I’m always, even on a daily basis, tempted to exclude others who I deem to be professionally stupid, selfish and recalcitrant. But fortunately or unfortunately I’m on the same planet traveling through time learning the hard lessons of humility and compassion that come through the forbearance of holding other’s opposites.

Could it be that “advanced” extra-terrestrial possibly hold us and our planet in the same way, humbly desiring the best for us. Patiently waiting in pregnant expectation for our wholly into maturity and freedom. I ultimately felt this desire for my children as a parent and historically speaking we all know now that the Europeans should have done this in their great quest and exploration of other lands.

Let’s not build a roof cynicism to fast for our species, immaturity is not final but generative.

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Riff McClavin's avatar

Another well-articulated and cogent take. Watching the American government of late makes ME feel like an alien.

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