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jamenta's avatar

Interesting unconscious projection.

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John Day MD's avatar

I think my perceptions are accurate. It is like a test of the world.

We have a lot of residents in the area from Asia, not only China and India, and some traditionally-dressed women with head coverings. One of these, who had never made eye contact in previous years, began smiling to my face, for instance.

I am a person who habitually looks people in the eye and smiles, noticing the people who never look, as much as those who appear conflicted about it, and those who sneak a peek just when I am passing by.

Because of the way I present, I see people who do sneak a furtive glance, and get a smile from me, get more open and start to see me farther away, and get ready to smile and wave.

Guys too, even straight guys, sometimes...

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jamenta's avatar

"Being aware of the sound of a bell, does not mean that bell belongs to you. Likewise being aware of thoughts, does not mean the thoughts belong to you." ~Wu Hsin

Carl Jung often emphasized people have far less control over their thoughts and inner psyche than they believe they do. The unconscious has a depth not many suspect except to those who have actually tried to study it. Then you realize there is more going on below the surface of "awareness" than above.

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Klaus Hubbertz's avatar

YOU make a difference !!! 👍👍👍🚲🚲🚲 ( ) ( ) ( )

(just waiting for the day I can click on a keffiyeh-emoji here on Substack)

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