The only time you can be insulted by a critique is if you resonate with its truth..If people lie about you there's no insult..the problem is you all want a "reputation" because that translates to survival in the group tribe or cult..
I get that humans can't exist in a vacume, that we all have to relie on each other for basic needs but the way people are and act now I rather not interact with them at all..drop the package off on the porch and fuck off.
I'm kidding ..I actual like people and like experiencing new personalities one on one,,.usually they are decent folk,,,but in groups they become tribal and ugly,,,more than a few people in a group and it all comes out. Rivalry and peacocking to strut around as king of some hill. You can wax away at your own Pollyanna visions as a means of head in the clouds ignorance like cancer devoid of its ability to recognize its host is dying all you want but that ignorance will be your own downfall.
Does it translate into 'the only time you can feel attacked is if you resonate with it truth'?
And you attacked me! hey world come and see what a horrible person chaz is, he/she attacks me every single time I kindly try to help them', poor me, poor me poor me 😭😭😭😭😭
I also find it interesting that as soon as any of you feel slightly chalanged you go into fits of condecending behavior patterns and mocking. You took it personal not I...It's so easy for you people to feel slighted and triggered, so if I used the word we instead of you..maybe that would have been a safer space for you..my apologies
i didn't feel attacked too badly. i tried to show you that any criticism might be seen as an attack. you might be right it was rather patronizing of me and not too kind.
The problem is you think your advice is help from some position of superiority ... Did you resonate with the critique too much? If it did not apply to you then why be upset? Triggered?
The only time you can be insulted by a critique is if you resonate with its truth..If people lie about you there's no insult..the problem is you all want a "reputation" because that translates to survival in the group tribe or cult..
I get that humans can't exist in a vacume, that we all have to relie on each other for basic needs but the way people are and act now I rather not interact with them at all..drop the package off on the porch and fuck off.
I'm kidding ..I actual like people and like experiencing new personalities one on one,,.usually they are decent folk,,,but in groups they become tribal and ugly,,,more than a few people in a group and it all comes out. Rivalry and peacocking to strut around as king of some hill. You can wax away at your own Pollyanna visions as a means of head in the clouds ignorance like cancer devoid of its ability to recognize its host is dying all you want but that ignorance will be your own downfall.
Does it translate into 'the only time you can feel attacked is if you resonate with it truth'?
And you attacked me! hey world come and see what a horrible person chaz is, he/she attacks me every single time I kindly try to help them', poor me, poor me poor me 😭😭😭😭😭
;)
I also find it interesting that as soon as any of you feel slightly chalanged you go into fits of condecending behavior patterns and mocking. You took it personal not I...It's so easy for you people to feel slighted and triggered, so if I used the word we instead of you..maybe that would have been a safer space for you..my apologies
sorry, i missed these two last comments of yours.
i didn't feel attacked too badly. i tried to show you that any criticism might be seen as an attack. you might be right it was rather patronizing of me and not too kind.
The problem is you think your advice is help from some position of superiority ... Did you resonate with the critique too much? If it did not apply to you then why be upset? Triggered?
If you feel attacked its on you...stop playing a victim
I meant it all in a general sense you took it personal