My mother had a saying : "Clean your own closet before you start in on others' "
My mother would have said; clean your own room, and look helpful, but wait for the ask, as even an offer of help can be a slap in the face of someone who isn't looking for your help.
MY mother said, "When your doorstep is clean, then you can clean others'."
My mother had a saying : "Clean your own closet before you start in on others' "
My mother would have said; clean your own room, and look helpful, but wait for the ask, as even an offer of help can be a slap in the face of someone who isn't looking for your help.
MY mother said, "When your doorstep is clean, then you can clean others'."