If the abused inevitably become abusers, I’d be a serial killer.
I will never forgive life for what my abuser did to me. He broke my bones. He choked me into unconsciousness so many times that with every subsequence action, I hoped to really die that time. But that was HIS fault, nobody else’s, except for my own…and I made it through.
It left me with fists that I was always prepared to use, but I never started a fistfight myself.
It was always reactionary.
So don’t try to sell us that tired old bullshit that Jews are reacting to the so-called Holocaust. They SHOULD be the kindest, most moral people in the world ( see, there’s this thang called “empathy”) and the vast majority of Jews in both IsraHell and Amerikkka support the genocide.
If you can’t risk making a fool of yourself, best to keep your trap shut.
I'm sorry you had to go through what you did. There's a saying in the Talmud, "God keeps close those he loves the best". The meaning of that is that through pain we learn empathy for others. I am sorry but with your level of hatred towards people you obviously don't know and know nothing about other than your prejudices I would say you're not healed. Hatred is not healing.
I do not see that people who have suffered serious abuse should be the kindest people in the world. I also underwent serious abuse as a child. I did not automatically become a kind and loving person. I was mostly a confused person until I got help. And it took a long time to recover.
It takes a lot of work and determination to get to a place where one can see the long line of abuse and pain that has happened before the abuser got to you. At some point we have to stop hating and work on understanding. Only then will the cycle be broken and maybe wars and hating will stop. There is no need to forgive our abusers. Only to understand how they got there so that maybe we can slow it down from happening more.
It is you who is not understanding. Very often, when people have not processed and understood what happened to them, they either repeat it or harm themselves by using drugs or booze. This article might clarify some things for you. Or not. https://dissidentvoice.org/2024/01/social-formation/#more-147242
I don't support what the state of Israel is doing. I think that, in global terms, if we want to try to understand how to stop hate and genocide, we need to look further.
Wrong, wrong, wrong.
If the abused inevitably become abusers, I’d be a serial killer.
I will never forgive life for what my abuser did to me. He broke my bones. He choked me into unconsciousness so many times that with every subsequence action, I hoped to really die that time. But that was HIS fault, nobody else’s, except for my own…and I made it through.
It left me with fists that I was always prepared to use, but I never started a fistfight myself.
It was always reactionary.
So don’t try to sell us that tired old bullshit that Jews are reacting to the so-called Holocaust. They SHOULD be the kindest, most moral people in the world ( see, there’s this thang called “empathy”) and the vast majority of Jews in both IsraHell and Amerikkka support the genocide.
If you can’t risk making a fool of yourself, best to keep your trap shut.
I'm sorry you had to go through what you did. There's a saying in the Talmud, "God keeps close those he loves the best". The meaning of that is that through pain we learn empathy for others. I am sorry but with your level of hatred towards people you obviously don't know and know nothing about other than your prejudices I would say you're not healed. Hatred is not healing.
WHAT “god”?
Not everyone can recover from their abuse as you seem to have done. Some need help getting through it.
Then they clearly need to get help.
Anyways, I was referring to an entire demographic, not just individuals.
I do not see that people who have suffered serious abuse should be the kindest people in the world. I also underwent serious abuse as a child. I did not automatically become a kind and loving person. I was mostly a confused person until I got help. And it took a long time to recover.
It takes a lot of work and determination to get to a place where one can see the long line of abuse and pain that has happened before the abuser got to you. At some point we have to stop hating and work on understanding. Only then will the cycle be broken and maybe wars and hating will stop. There is no need to forgive our abusers. Only to understand how they got there so that maybe we can slow it down from happening more.
Again, Susan:
This thing called EMPATHY.
Why in hell would you want genocide against a population when your own people experienced it?
Jews should be the very people advocating AGAINST genocide.
WTF don’t you get?
It is you who is not understanding. Very often, when people have not processed and understood what happened to them, they either repeat it or harm themselves by using drugs or booze. This article might clarify some things for you. Or not. https://dissidentvoice.org/2024/01/social-formation/#more-147242
I don’t need “clarification”. I don’t use street drugs and I’m only a very occasional drinker.
My way of dealing with what happened to me is to slam that door. And keep it shut.
Six months after I kicked out my abuser, I met the man with whom I’ve had a nearly 43-year marriage.
I don't support what the state of Israel is doing. I think that, in global terms, if we want to try to understand how to stop hate and genocide, we need to look further.
also, gypsy, I would say from the way you have responded to me that you are a verbally abusive person. I hope that does not extend to the physical.